tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-44929515002030960182024-03-05T06:53:01.708-08:00The Bowers' BlogThe Bowershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096968596210486326noreply@blogger.comBlogger195125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4492951500203096018.post-21191409343722577312015-05-02T13:09:00.000-07:002015-05-02T13:09:44.548-07:00So I've been thinking...I've done some thinking over the last week or so, and if I posted it as my facebook status, it would have diary qualifications, so I decided a blog was the way to go.<br />
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I've been thinking about some changes I need to make. I read a lot. I hear a lot. I'm so quick to pass judgement without really knowing what's going on. I make assumptions. Maybe instead of making assumptions, if it's something I really need to know, I should go ask that person. I was reading an article last night about someone accused of something. She hasn't been proven guilty, but her name is ruined. How sad for her. How sad for her family. I'm as guilty as anyone about passing judgement when I read such things. We might climb down from our high horse if we consider how easy it is for us to be in that same position. All it takes is an accusation. <br />
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How scary that sometimes others, intentionally or not, can make choices that turn our lives upside down. I like to think the truth always wins out, and it will eventually, but sometimes God doesn't seem to be moving fast enough for me. I've been reading about Joseph this week. It's one of Ella Kate's favorite stories. Many things went wrong in Joseph's life. He was sold into slavery by jealous brothers and thrown into prison on false charges. Joseph wasn't perfect, I'm sure, but he had to feel at times that life wasn't fair. What I keep coming back to is that although so many things went wrong for Joseph, God still had his hand on him. He was on the throne, even in the worst of circumstances. In the end when he had the chance to confront his brothers he said, "You meant it for bad; God meant it for good." <br />
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I'm clinging to that truth this week. Maybe you needed to hear it too. <br />
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"The LORD will fight for you; you need only to be still." Exodus 14:14<br />
The Bowershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096968596210486326noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4492951500203096018.post-65358506036721269592014-10-14T16:26:00.001-07:002014-10-14T17:15:37.783-07:00My Last First Date7 years ago tonight, I was getting ready for my last first date (a friend used that term and I liked it. Thanks, Meghon!). I was a nervous wreck. To say it had been a while might have been an understatement. Had it not been for Will and Spring Tate, I'm pretty sure I would have backed right on out. Guys made me nervous because somewhere along the way I had decided if I accidentally picked the wrong one, I'd be a miserable girl the rest of my life. (I went out with a few wrong ones. I have stories...good stories. But I'll save those for another day...or never.) But even while I worried, God was guiding. And even on those days when I tried my hand at one that wasn't just right for me, and got hurt, He was still guiding. <br />
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I agreed to a date on a Sunday night after he had football and after I had church. We went out for Mexican food in Luverne. He picked me up in his little bitty white car and in the 3 minutes it took us to get there, I remember thinking: 1- He was really cute. 2-He played great music. 3. I was going to have to roll out on my knees to get out. (Seriously, the car was low. It was the first thing to go after I said I do.) We both ate chicken nachos and I use the term "ate" loosely. I probably didn't eat 3 bites. We came back and sat on my porch swing...for a long time. I missed that night's Desperate Housewives. I should have known then, this was serious business.</div>
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I am pretty certain that I did my absolute best to run him off for the first couple of months. However, 9 months and 5 days after that first date, we were married. It's not perfect. He makes me mad. Some nights we get little to no sleep (our kids are rough bed partners). We forget to put the trash by the road when the can is overflowing and we don't know how we will fit one more cup in, much less all our trash for a week (that was last night). I spend too much and he swears we will be eating pork and beans for a month (but my new clothes look cute). The house gets messy. I get overwhelmed. Marriage is tough. But it's so worth it, too. And I am so thankful Bradley didn't give up on me. I'm also thankful that God didn't allow me to settle for less than this, because I am absolutely certain that this was God's BEST for ME. </div>
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It makes me happy to remember these little things. Maybe it's encouraging for you to read. It's a reminder of God's faithfulness, and we all need those. Even those of us who have found our prince often need to be reminded that God's at work in our lives, because sometimes we all feel discouraged. </div>
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The Bowershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096968596210486326noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4492951500203096018.post-11326494237006665092014-07-19T17:34:00.000-07:002014-07-19T17:34:57.775-07:00Six Years of Wedded BlissSix years of wedded bliss and zero arguments...just kidding. In the age of "facebook fake" as someone called it recently, I want to really be honest with you. Six years ago tonight I walked down the aisle and made a commitment before God and a whole bunch of people...probably some of you. It was the sweetest day. It was perfect (really...I wish I could do that day over and over). I knew that life would always be sweet and romantic and perfect. And it was. For a week. <br />
The week we returned from our honeymoon, football started and reality set in. At some point I might have even said, "no one told me it would be this way." I might have been crying. I enjoy sports, so forever I thought it would be just perfect if I married a coach. And when God brought me my heart's desire, I realized it was not all pompoms and hugs after games. I was more like, "Where in the world is my husband? It's time for dinner." I learned to adjust, and we settled in. Everyone told us the first year would be the hardest. I beg to differ. The year a child arrives...THAT my friends, will test your marriage. Then you have another baby, and your husband is blessed with his first head football job all in the same month (and your dog barks all.the.time.) THAT will also test your marriage. It was hard. It still is hard. Marriage is work. <br />
I've been reading a book (The Antelope in the Living Room- I highly recommend it!). It talks a lot about how our expectations of love and how it really is are very different things. Love is not all pompoms and hugs. It's not flowers and candlelit dinners. It's real life. In my house, love looks like drinking tea because there is one Coke Zero left and you know your wife will need it at 9:30 p.m. after the kids pass out. It looks like bringing home chocolate because you know it will make her happy. It looks like folding that load of clothes on the couch without being asked. (Typing this is making me think he shows way more love than I do.) Love looks like praying for your spouse even when they don't know it. Love is choosing to show grace. It's knowing your spouse isn't perfect and accepting them anyway. I do not have this thing down. I am learning. EVERY.DAY. My best friend gave me a card on our wedding day. She probably has no idea, but I have kept it in my Bible since then. It says, "Sometimes love is a choice." How true. It is making a choice to overlook imperfections. It's a pardon none of us deserve.<br />
Bradley is so patient with me, y'all. (Me, not so much...working on that) God knew what he was doing when he brought us together. I am grateful for him. I'm grateful for the grace he shows me. <br />
I don't write this to make you think it's always hard. It's not. Many days, it's easy. But on the days it's not easy, I don't want to bail out. I want to find a way to make it work. I want to be in this for the long haul. For better or for worse. <br />
Thank you for the best 6 years, B. Looking forward to real life with you for many more. The Bowershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096968596210486326noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4492951500203096018.post-31180076156517978972014-06-16T07:29:00.000-07:002014-06-16T08:15:39.318-07:00"Miss" Sally: A TributeI know it's been a while, but my heart is heavy and I am hoping this will help. Can I tell you about someone special? Would you listen to me ramble for a few minutes? When I got ready to begin school in Troy I had some complications regarding where I would live. It left me with 1 option...to commute. Through a family connection, a very dear couple who knew very little about me, offered to let me move into their home. So I did. When I moved in, I thought I might stay a year, but I ended up staying with them the entire time I was at Troy. They became like family to me. We shared dinners, long conversations, laughter (lots of laughter), beach trips, Auburn/Alabama rivalries, and so much more (my heart smiles just thinking about these things). I came into their home at a time that I felt a little lost about where life was taking me. I came in questioning some things that I had believed for a long time. I am certain that "Miss" Sally listened to my sob story at least 499 times. But she listened. Every. Time. She was a great listener. My time in their home was very healing. <br />
After college, I moved and started my first job, but we continued to call each other often. During this time, they moved to Auburn, and I would occasionally go spend the weekend with them. They still invited me on their family beach trips. They had 4 children and many grandchildren so these trips were so much fun to me. They sat at the front at my wedding. There is a precious picture of him looking at her prior to the start of the ceremony. (They were probably in shock that I was finally getting married.) B and I started to visit together. B is convinced she makes the BEST french toast known to man. One visit that stands out in my mind was just after we brought Ella Kate home from the hospital. It's no secret that I was pretty sure I had ruined my life and would never sleep again. Ever. But "Miss" Sally and Mr. Terry brought dinner that night and I remember as they left, she said to me, "Honey, it's going to get better." She had this laugh that I can still hear. And for some reason when she said that I thought, "you know, maybe it will". I had a little hope. She was right. It did get better. <br />
Two years ago, they celebrated their 50th Wedding Anniversary. We went and enjoyed our time. Ella Kate was a big fan of the dance floor and "Miss" Sally enjoyed it as well. We visited them this past March and had the best time. We spent the day sitting outside, remembering all those times in Troy and laughing.<br />
This precious couple had so much of an impact on my life. They are selfless. That is the first word that comes to mind. I was not the first person they had invited into their home. They represented the love of Christ. I think you would have a hard time finding anyone who thought otherwise. Because that was just how they were. I have so many fond memories that I'm sure you don't have time to read, nor do I have the time to type. But I want anyone who reads this to know that Terry and Sally Ingalls were a Godsend in my life. Words fail me to describe just how much I love them. <br />
This past Saturday morning, I received a heart breaking phone call. "Miss" Sally's earthly life ended unexpectedly that morning. Her family is heart broken, as are the many others who loved her. My heart aches like it hasn't in a very long time. But my hope is this: "Miss" Sally is in heaven. Her joy is full, and I will see her again one day. I want those who didn't know her to know about her, for she was a precious, precious lady. We could all do well to leave a legacy behind such as hers. Please be in prayer for her family and friends as they celebrate her life this week. Remember that life is fleeting and precious. Spend time with those you love.<br />
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<br />The Bowershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096968596210486326noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4492951500203096018.post-13054779253093377842013-05-26T09:53:00.003-07:002013-05-26T09:53:30.630-07:00Party of 4Our party of 3 became a party of 4 about 4 weeks ago at 7:44 a.m. Ella Kate is thrilled. Why was I so worried about her? She thinks he's great. She says he's "adorable", "so nice", and "so cute". Bradley and I are amazed that a baby can be so easy. He sleeps! Thank you, Lord. He (so far) is really laid back. He gets that from his Daddy. He also looks just like him. We've all adjusted fairly easily over the last several weeks. I continued to send Ella Kate to MawMaw's and Papa's during the week so I could have some time with John Hudson. It's been a sweet time. Before Ella Kate arrived I envisioned countless hours of relaxation and reading while she slept. Ha. That didn't happen. EVER. The reading. The relaxing. Or the Sleep. This time has been so much different. We get up once during the night. I don't know what to think. So we'll just be thankful. <br />
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I am a worrier, and a new baby brings new worries. I even called the doctor the first week because he slept all the time. I watched him constantly the first several nights at home. I've been known to stick my finger under his nose to make sure he's breathing. I had a small breakdown on our 3rd night at home because I let the worry consume me. I talked to a sweet friend and spent some time looking at several verses that put my mind at ease. God has been so good to send encouragement and reminders of his presence about this worry that I struggle with. On that particular night, Ella Kate came into the living room where I was in tears. She was singing Jesus Loves Me. We sing this all the time, but I fail to hear the words sometimes. It was so what I needed on that night. God loves our children and he watches over them, even when we sleep.<br />
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We took our first trip to the beach yesterday as a family of 4. Bradley says he looks like a beach contractor carrying our stuff to the beach. We were thankful to have Uncle G, Courtney, and her friend, Nancy with us yesterday to help carry stuff. I was a little nervous because Ella Kate HATED the beach her first summer, but it went great. And the extra people were great entertainment so that we didn't have to stay in the water the whole time. According to EK, you aren't at the beach if you aren't "in" the water. It was a perfect day, except for the places I missed on Bradley's back with the sunscreen. Sorry, B. <br />
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We're off to spend the afternoon with some long lost friends of ours and their baby girl. And back to the beach with some great friends tomorrow. I need a nap, but I have all summer, right? <br />
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HopeThe Bowershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096968596210486326noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4492951500203096018.post-43878476496921154582013-04-28T20:13:00.000-07:002013-04-28T20:13:36.004-07:00Change is Coming...We just tucked our baby girl in for the last time as our only child. This makes me sad for her for some reason. Her world is about to be flipped upside down, and I hope she handles it well. As excited as I am for what we're gaining this week, I'm sad about being away from Ella Kate all week, and I'm worried that she'll have a hard time adjusting. It makes me a little emotional. Maybe that's just the crazy hormones already. Or maybe it's a combination of things. I rocked her to sleep yesterday at nap time and had a good cry while I rocked. We never rock her to sleep. She rarely asks to be rocked. But I needed it yesterday, as much as she did. <br />
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We are so excited about John Hudson's arrival. Stay tuned for pictures. Coming soon...The Bowershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096968596210486326noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4492951500203096018.post-69845128768161722622013-04-21T11:38:00.001-07:002013-04-21T11:38:43.661-07:00The Countdown is ON. We haven't dropped off the face of the Earth...nope we're still here. Just being a blog slacker I guess. I'd tell you I'll try to do better, but you see, there's a little baby boy about to join this household in no more than 9 days and I remember how this new baby thing goes. CRAZI-NESS. That's exactly what it was the first time around. I was INSANE, EXHAUSTED, MOODY, MEAN, etc. I have plans to be a little more sane this time, but I'm not making any promises I can't keep. Regardless of the madness that comes with it, I am PUMPED. I've been checking things off my to do list this afternoon, and it's only 1:30! Bradley has been a champ. He swears he's hung the same curtain 4 times, but hey, the 4th time, he got it just right. He's been checking things off our list too, and I really appreciate him. He does it with a smile. He has even taken Ella Kate out for a few hours just to give me some "Mommy Time" as he calls it. That's why I'm finally getting to blog today. They went to MawMaws for lunch and I'm laying in the recliner watching HGTV... Ahhhh.<br />
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I will attempt to keep you posted on John Hudson's arrival. We ordered one that sleeps on a schedule this time. I forgot to check that box when we ordered Ella Kate. In fact, we're still working on her schedule. <br />
Looking forward to an exciting couple of weeks. Hope yours is great too!The Bowershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096968596210486326noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4492951500203096018.post-21441373693815879962013-02-16T18:08:00.002-08:002013-02-16T18:08:41.079-08:00I'm BACK!So it's been awhile. It's been a long while. Sorry for the delay. Life has been busy and interesting as usual. <br />
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Ella Kate is growing up so fast. She makes us laugh all the time. She has a bit of a strong will. Sometimes I'm not sure how to handle her, but we're all learning together. She's been sick a few times in the last couple of weeks. This is new for us. She had only had 1 sick visit until a month ago. We've been blessed in that area. And we've seen the doctor twice in the last month. I hope she's on the mend. And I hope she's learning to sleep in her own bed again. This momma is tired. <br />
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John Hudson is also growing fast, as am I. We'll be scheduling a c-section again, so I'm hoping we have about 10 weeks to go. I was beginning to think his nursery would be pink and he would have no clothes, but we're getting there. B painted the nursery 2 weeks ago, and I've been thrifting to find a dresser and rocker. I've also bought out Carter's. We found a dresser today at the beach. I'm pretty pumped, although I wish I'd offered less than I did...pretty sure the man would have taken it. Either way...it's coming along and maybe we can finish before he makes his arrival. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't nervous about 2 babies. Ella Kate will be a big help, but it hasn't been so long that I've forgotten how hard it was the first few weeks after we brought her home. Honestly, I thought I was Losing. My. Mind. I cried. A LOT. It's possible that I cried more than she did, but it got easier. I remember one particular night during that first week when I was sitting at the kitchen counter sobbing. B asked me what was wrong and I told him through tears, "It's getting dark!!! It's about to start again." I'm hoping we'll settle in a little faster this time. Regardless, we'll survive and he will be worth the sleepless nights. We're excited, and that's an understatement.<br />
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Life has brought about some uncertainties lately as it often does. I guess we never really know what lies ahead, but as Bradley has to remind me, God has a plan. I also made a decision to resign from cheerleading...a decision that makes me sad, but excited for time with my family. I do love my girls. They are sometimes my escape from the real world. I love listening to their stories. They make me laugh. They make me proud. But I realize that the demands of 2 children will be greater, especially during football season, and couldn't figure out a way to make it all work. I know it's the right decision, but as exhausted as I get during basketball, I texted B during the last game Thursday night and told him it made me sad to watch the season end. This sounds crazy to some of you, but I spend countless hours with these girls. I am thankful for the opportunity. They've taught me as much or more than I've taught them. If they don't remember anything I've ever said, I hope they remember to never settle for just ok...in a husband, in a job, in life. Wait for the best, girls.<br />
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I took a personal day yesterday. It was AMAZING. B took Ella Kate on to Maw Maws. I watched the Today Show in my pj's. When I finally did get dressed, I treated myself to a manicure, a pedicure, and Sonic. When I got home, I sat in the backyard and read my Kindle. I might have caught a few Z's in the sunshine as well. I had an appointment yesterday afternoon and was still home alone, so I blared a cd from my college days while I got ready. Pure BLISS. I needed yesterday in a bad way. We left late and spent the night with B's brother and his wife in Freeport. It has been an extra good weekend, and it's only Saturday night. B has a fire going and I'm snuggled up on the couch. After I post this, I plan to Pinterest until I hit the sack, which may be sooner than later. <br />
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I promise to make a better effort on the blog. Hope you all enjoy the rest of the weekend. <br />
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<br />The Bowershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096968596210486326noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4492951500203096018.post-4353543414108219022012-11-18T06:09:00.000-08:002012-11-18T06:09:03.455-08:00This may get sappy...So this weekend, actually about May, my cheerleaders and I started a journey that we'd never taken before. We decided we'd give this competition thing a go. About 2 weeks ago, I was wondering if we'd lost our minds. Last Monday in the middle of a 6 hour practice, I called B and told him that I was really worried about this. However, by the end of that long practice, I had decided they'd pull it off, somehow. <br />
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I won't tell you that cheerleading is life, but for most of these girls, it's their talent. It's what they're REALLY good at. And they're my girls. Some weeks I spend more time with them than I do with my husband and my own child. They teach me A LOT. They tell me things I don't want to know. They make me laugh. They make me mad. Friday night, when they surprised me with a baby shower after checking into our rooms, they made me cry. They are great. <br />
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Yesterday, I was extremely emotional when they finished their routine. I was SO <b>PROUD </b>of those 15 girls. I was proud because they set their minds to something and they pulled it off. They have put in countless hours of hard work for 2 and a half minutes on the floor. But it was important to them and they did it. They were ranked 3rd out of 7 squads. I think they are often overlooked, so I wanted this post to be about them and what they work so hard for. You represented ZC <b>so well</b>. If no one else realizes what you've accomplished, I DO. I love you, girls. Super proud of you and the goals that you've reached. Also, a big thank you to Ms. Monica, Adria, Paige, and Shanelle at gymnastics. You're the best!<br />
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Now, on to Thanksgiving week. Two fun days at school and 3 days off. I'll take it. Have a wonderful week.The Bowershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096968596210486326noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4492951500203096018.post-61073586913715586142012-11-11T17:44:00.000-08:002012-11-11T17:44:19.734-08:00A Little of This...A Little of ThatWell baby #2 is...........a boy! I was more pumped about this than my husband. You see, the plan I have is never to do this pregnancy thing again. So I knew we either got a boy this go round or we had all girls. On the way to Dothan Monday morning, I talked myself through all the reasons 2 girls would be great . I wanted to be prepared either way. He was extremely cooperative, and we were told immediately that it was definitely a boy. Off we went for a little birthday shopping and celebrating. We spent a couple of hours at Chuck E. Cheese that afternoon and had a blast.<br />
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I had a workshop in Troy Wednesday-Friday and I officially decided if there were a Hardees in Elba, I'd be in serious trouble. Yes, I had a biscuit. every. morning. Yes, they were great. <br />
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We had Ella Kate's 2nd birthday party yesterday, bouncy house and all. She LOVED it. I'm not sure how many adults she convinced to get in there with her, but I know there were several. So thankful to all the people that came and loved our baby girl. Last night we watched Bama crash and burn. B needed a little cheering up, so we broke out Christmas Vacation. It was nice. I told him it was almost like we were dating again, except for the 2 year old climbing all over us throughout the movie. It was a great Saturday.<br />
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Today we visited Newbia Church where they honored our football team and coaches. It went well until Ella Kate attempted to take a few bills out of the offering plate during the offering. I've always heard, "if you need some, take some", but I'm not sure who shared that with her. It was a nice service. We've had a lazy afternoon. We made home made pizza for supper, and Ella Kate is trying out all of her new toys.<br />
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Next weekend, my girls travel to Hanceville to compete in the State Cheerleader Competition. I'm nervous, although probably not as nervous as they are. They have put in SO MUCH hard work. I'm super proud of them and we hope to make our mark in Hanceville next Saturday. Love you girls! <br />
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Hope you all have a super week! Here's to 6 more work days, then Thankgiving Break! The Bowershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096968596210486326noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4492951500203096018.post-21502161372683341762012-11-04T13:25:00.001-08:002012-11-04T13:25:51.426-08:00Ella Kate turns 2!Two years ago today we were on our way to Dothan to prepare to meet our baby girl. Wow, how time has flown. I'm watching she and her daddy share a piece of cheesecake as I type and feeling so thankful for them both. Pregnancy with EK was pretty scary for a short period of time. But she entered this world just fine. One of her favorite phrases lately is "I love you guys!" We're not sure where she's heard it but she uses it often. She's as tall at 2 as I was at 3. And she is NOT interested in moving to the big girl bed, the big girl room, OR using the big girl potty. I mentioned to her that we might put a tv in the big girl room and she said, "I just watch yours". I give up. <br />
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The ultrasound that was to be last Thursday did not happen. So we're off to the doctor tomorrow to give it a whirl. We'll be celebrating Ella Kate's 2nd birthday in style...Chucky Cheese, here we come! I don't know about her, but tonight I'll be dreaming of pizza and skeeball. B and I have always said we couldn't wait for her to be big enough to go so we can play too. We may be a little rusty, but I figure it will all come back to us. And if I remember correctly, that pizza is awesome. <br />
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It's a busy, busy week at our house. We have a party to get ready for. However, my sweet husband gets to come home right after school again, and I'll have lots for him to do. Now, let me get started on that list...The Bowershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096968596210486326noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4492951500203096018.post-81168145308855881502012-10-29T18:33:00.002-07:002012-10-29T18:33:20.584-07:00Another Big WeekendIt was another big weekend at the Bowers' house. Friday's ballgame was a nail biter and we came up a little short. That means this week will wind up football season at our house. It's really flown by, but I prefer to never experience the first trimester of a pregnancy during football season again. Ha. Who am I kidding? I prefer no more first trimesters. They're rough on this girl. <br />
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Saturday morning, my friend, Chelsi and I met in Troy to celebrate the upcoming arrival of Miss Emma Maness. Emma's parents have longed for this day for so many years. Their story is quite an amazing one. Andrea is due in December, and we enjoyed the morning at her shower. Don't tell Bradley, but after the shower we hit a few stores on the square before coming home. I topped off the morning with a big order of McDonald's french fries and my radio blaring 90's on 9. Yes, it's the little things. <br />
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I may have mentioned that back in the summer, I sold our bedroom furniture. All of it. We bought an old dresser and painted it. We picked up a bed frame. Other than that, we've been roughing it. Last weekend my parents picked up 2 night stands that I sanded and they painted. B had them all moved in when I got back from the shower so we set to work organizing all our junk that's been laying the floor of the spare bedroom since before school started. That room is soon to become Ella Kate's room. She's not in agreement yet. But I feel like when we go pink in there, she'll change her mind. She will, after all, be 2 a week from today. Yes, seriously. She needs a big girl room. <br />
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We got to visit with Uncle J, Uncle G, Aunt Courtney, Papa, and Gigi Saturday night during the game. It was a great visit. Sunday, G and Courtney joined us at church then we headed to the family reunion afterwards. After a little nap, Ella Kate and I took off to our church's fall festival. She loved it. I think we picked up ducks 54 times and raced cars at least 32 times. It seemed like a lot. But she had a ball. Tomorrow is Pumpkins on the Square. EK will be sporting her busy bee costume and if it's as cold as they're saying, we'll be bundled up tight. I'm planning on putting chili in the crockpot in the morning. I don't eat it, but it sure smells good. <br />
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Thursday, we're planning to have "the ultrasound". Boy or girl? I'm trying to remain neutral. But I'll post ASAP. Have a great week!The Bowershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096968596210486326noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4492951500203096018.post-65222290232922700022012-10-21T19:30:00.000-07:002012-10-21T19:30:22.206-07:00A Wonderful WeekendWe kicked off the weekend Friday with a ballgame in Luverne. I miss my friends there! They were always a blast. It was so nice to see them, even if it was briefly. With that being said, I was really, really, really proud of our guys. They played hard all night long. And I'll leave it at that...simply because if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. Tough loss. B tried to become The Deer Slayer on the way home from the game. He's fine. His truck is not. We'll know just how "not fine" it is after tomorrow. <br />
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We started Saturday with my Grandmother's 99th Birthday lunch at the lake. 99 years??? Can you imagine??? She's still looking good and seeing Ella Kate give her a big hug and try to pull her to the swings was entertaining. Rarely get to see that side of the family. I hate that because they're lots of fun. Ella Kate had all the fun she could stand, and she crashed about 5 minutes from home. I took advantage of a lazy afternoon at home and napped as well. I think we slept for hours. I finally pulled myself out of the recliner and made a chocolate chip pecan pie. BEST. EVER. I've attempted this several times, but this one was definitely the most successful. Made it yesterday and it's gone. Uncle G, Courtney, and Gerald came last night to hang out and spend the night. We sat around the outdoor fireplace watching football and chatting. We finally moved the party inside and hit the sack around midnight. It was nice to sit around with breakfast and coffee this morning. I don't drink it, but I do love the smell. We all went to Maw Maw's for lunch after church. Ella Kate loves G and Courtney. She's pretty fond of Gerald too. The visit was great and I hope it happens again soon. <br />
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Congrats to my friend, Allie, and her husband John, as they got to meet their 2nd baby boy yesterday, Nolan Timothy. Such a sweet time for them. <br />
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It was one of those weekends that leaves you feeling extra blessed. My energy is slowly returning, and the nausea is slowing fading in intensity (I hope). This afternoon I hung up some clothes that have been laying in a pile in our bedroom for at least 2 weeks, sanded 2 nightstands, and hung some pictures that I bought 6 weeks ago. I know. Watch out. I'm on a roll. I've even fixed my hair a couple of times. This is big. I was living with the bun for at least a month. Never fear. It was a stylish bun! <br />
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Hope you all have a week that leaves you feeling extra blessed. The Bowershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096968596210486326noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4492951500203096018.post-70896202260223297442012-10-13T06:42:00.000-07:002012-10-13T07:12:16.936-07:00Relief! I see it!I think relief is in sight! That's the thing about "pregnant sick". You don't know if it's going to end, at least anytime soon. And it becomes, for me, a little depressing. But I've had some better days this week and it continues to improve. I am SO thankful. Unless you've experienced this, you just have no idea how thankful. With Ella Kate, I'm not sure it ended until she arrived. She was worth it, no doubt. But I've been really concerned it would be the same way again. We are super thankful for this baby, no matter what. We realize, from personal experience, that there are many people who would give their right arm to experience this gift, even if it does come with a little sickness. <br />
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Homecoming Week was great. In my opinion, the best ever. I saw some precious nerds and hippies this week. I even heard a few songs in the hall. Always entertaining. We held our first ever black light pep rally Thursday night. I was nervous about this...and a little stressed. My father in law made a Walmart run Thursday because I woke up that morning in a panic that I might not have enough lights. Thanks Papa! It turned out to be a hit. The gym was full and there was plenty of entertainment to go around. I loved it. I will attempt to upload a clip to facebook soon. So proud of my girls. They were up and back at school bright and early yesterday morning for the annual homecoming breakfast. Coach Robison gave a great devotion about finishing well. Finish well they did...ZC ended the week with a huge win last night. I did not grow up in Jack, but B and I love working at Zion Chapel. We've got some pretty awesome kids, parents, and teachers. Homecoming each year makes me feel extra thankful to be a part of a great place. <br />
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Got to see a far away friend for a few minutes last night. And hoping to have dinner with she and her husband tonight. Ella Kate and I are hanging out in our pj's and watching Mickey Mouse Clubhouse. I'm blogging and she's trying to inspect my teeth. She keeps telling me to "open mouf". Happy Saturday!<br />
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<br />The Bowershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096968596210486326noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4492951500203096018.post-75777696119019750842012-10-06T10:32:00.001-07:002012-10-06T10:32:32.022-07:00I Have An Announcement:I worked in the yard this morning. Yes, after a month of accomplishing NOTHING due to a lack of energy and constant nausea, I stepped out into the yard this morning and trimmed the shrubs. I also cleaned out the dog pen, AND potted my mums. I know. As EK says, "I so pwoud of you.". I feel so accomplished. My kitchen still looks like a bomb went off, but I'll tackle that later. I was so certain I would continue running while I was pregnant. Ha. Not going to happen. I have been doing better than I did the first go 'round. I refuse to gain 60 lbs this time. She was worth it though.<br />
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Ella Kate is growing up everyday. She keeps us smiling. She told B this morning when we picked her up from my parents', "Hey, My Daddy". Precious. She is a prissy little thing. She's all about her sparkly Bob's or her new "boops" aka: boots. She tells us, "So pretty!" She's all about some clothes. And cleaning. Absolutely. My. Child. <br />
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There is not one thing on the agenda for us today. Oh, I LOVE it. A Saturday at home. This time of year is super busy for us. I'm sure it's that way for everyone. It was after midnight when we rolled up last night. And homecoming week is upon us. There are dress up days, banners to make, shirts to sort, and pep rallies to hold. It's not as much fun as it was as a student, but I always like a little break from routine. Homecoming Week? Sure. Bring it on. The Bowershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096968596210486326noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4492951500203096018.post-51808748696455966472012-09-22T11:16:00.001-07:002012-09-22T11:16:15.807-07:00Bowers Party of 4Yes, we're expecting! And we're excited. Ella Kate is convinced the baby is in her tummy. Based on the number of times, I've hugged the toilet, I'm convinced she's wrong. This will be worth it. This will be worth it. That's what I keep telling myself. The little person patting my back and tell me "sorwy! I sick too!" reminds me that it's worth it. Either it's not as bad as it was the first "go round" or I am handling it better. Maybe both. B always says I can't keep a secret to save my life. He's right. But we kept this under wraps for almost a month. I did good, didn't I, Bradley? EK and I had a conversation this morning about how she might want to consider using her potty now, since the baby will need her diapers. She looked at me, sighed, and said, "No, hanks", and went about her business.<br />
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It's been quite a week, some good, some bad. I've done a lot of thinking this morning about the previous week. I'm definitely thankful for it all, and I say that with all sincerity. Sometimes what we need and what we prefer are two different things. <br />
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Happy Saturday to everyone. Now if I could just summon the energy to get out of this chair...<br />
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<br />The Bowershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096968596210486326noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4492951500203096018.post-70092557670122177392012-09-12T19:05:00.002-07:002012-09-12T19:05:38.688-07:00A few reasons I enjoy my job...1. Our "4H Lady" was encouraging our kids to learn their addresses. She told them this was important. "What if your house in on fire and you have to call 911? How will they find your house???" A kid near my desk speaks up and says, "I'd tell them to look for the smoke!" <br />
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2. I've been helping my students with their math during Intervention. Last week, it was Order of Operations. They had been taught this previously. We were reviewing. I read the notes and said, "oh yeah! Please Excuse My Dear Aunt Sally." A student said, "what's wrong with her???" I, confused, said, "who?" She replied, "your aunt Sally". I. Give. Up. <br />
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Seriously, we have a great bunch this year. Enjoying their personalities. <br />
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Can I say have a good weekend when it's only Wednesday? I think so. Enjoy the next 2 days AND the weekend! Goodnight!The Bowershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096968596210486326noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4492951500203096018.post-26618920678712196742012-09-03T07:27:00.002-07:002012-09-03T07:27:51.686-07:00A Day at Home= BLISSLife has been a bit of a whirlwind the last couple of weeks. We've gained a new sister in law and watched Ella Kate dance her heart out at the reception. We've been to a football game or two. It's been busy. But this morning B left for football and Ella Kate and I are hanging out at home. It's GREAT. I love being at home. She's serenading me with her Cookie Monster Keyboard as I type. Earlier she was pretending to "bacuum" with her rolling golf bag. That's my girl. We do love a clean house around here. She is no exception. <br />
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Back to the wedding. Ella Kate decided as we were leaving the cabin for pictures that she needed her hair in a "tail" like mommy's. It took a little convincing to get her to settle for the head band that Gigi got her. She can be a little "strong willed". I was not concerned that she'd be shy. I WAS concerned that she'd stop to speak to each person on her way down the aisle. She did neither. She bounded down the aisle yelling, "I coming! I coming too!" while dragging the ring bearer with her. The weather was perfect. It was a beautiful wedding. EK loves to dance, and we had to hold her to keep her off the dance floor while G and Courtney had their first dance. She almost joined them one time. If no one else enjoyed the reception, she did. Congrats G and Courtney! We're happy for you. <br />
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Football is in full swing around here. I was super proud of my girls Friday night. I really enjoy them. They keep me laughing...never a dull moment for sure. EK and I are getting lots of girl time at home. Sometimes we enjoy it. Sometimes it's TOO much girl time. We miss B. But we appreciate him that much more when he's home. This morning, we've done our toes and hid under the sheet too many times to count. I'm not sure who we're hiding from, but she thinks it's great. I love this age. She is hilarious. So thankful for her. <br />
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Hope you have a great Labor Day and an extra good week. <br />
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<br />The Bowershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096968596210486326noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4492951500203096018.post-30340245982960681222012-08-18T20:27:00.001-07:002012-08-18T20:27:55.130-07:00I survived!I survived Tuesday: back to work and leaving Ella Kate. She was fine. I was fine. I got all worked up over nothing. The week went well. I enjoyed seeing everyone on Tuesday and getting to catch up. Ella Kate only cried when I arrived each afternoon to pick her up because she wasn't ready to leave. I'm sure that's MUCH better than her crying because she didn't want me to leave her. Each day went fairly well. I worked almost nonstop Thursday and still wouldn't have had it all together if it weren't for my coworkers and a sweet visitor who helped staple papers at the last minute. But it was finished and Open House went smoothly. I thought I had it "wooped". One more day and it was Friday...I could make it. Ella Kate had other plans. We were up more Thursday night than we were asleep. I had flashbacks of when she was a newborn. I was exhausted. B left early to drop EK off so I could have a few extra minutes. I got in the car with my Coke Zero and had extra time to spare before I had to be at school. I was feeling better. Until I got a few driveways down... and the warning light on my dash came on and my car refused to turn. No power steering and something else I don't understand. I did what all really tired women would do in this situation. I switched it off and cried. <br />
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It could definitely be worse. I have a loaner until it's fixed. School starts Monday, the first football game is this week, and my brother in law gets married on Saturday. Just thinking about it makes me need a nap. But we'll survive, and we'll enjoy it. All of it. And THEN we'll take a nap. Here's to a busy week. The Bowershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096968596210486326noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4492951500203096018.post-28684489980984808372012-08-12T06:20:00.001-07:002012-08-12T06:20:28.597-07:00Honesty is the best policy.I'm going to be very honest this morning. I feel sick about having to leave Ella Kate bright and early Tuesday morning to go back to work. It's not that I don't love my job. I do. It's not that I want to be a "stay at home mom". I don't....well, only if my husband were rich and EK and I could shop all day. That's not happening, so I prefer to work. I love teaching (most days). I enjoy my kids. I enjoy my workplace. I don't normally spaz out about having to leave her. But I've gotten used to laying in bed with her in the mornings while she watches "Mickey, pease". And I've gotten used to letting her fly like an airplane on my feet and putting diapers on her baby dolls all day. I've gotten used to putting all 497 of her movies back in the tv cabinet EVERY SINGLE TIME she pulls them ALL out. I am thankful I've had the opportunity to be at home this summer and do all these things. But I also I know that once we start back, there will be very little of that for a while. It makes me sad. It makes my stomach feel sick. I'm not normally like this. BUT such is life. I'll be fine once I get there Tuesday morning. On a positive note, my classroom has NEVER been as organized as it is right now. I have done some major cleaning out this summer. I always have intentions to do this, but I'm always afraid I'll need it later. Every cabinet, closet, drawer, and shelf has been cleaned. I am READY. But I'm not ready to leave that baby girl.<br />
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So our plan is to soak up the day today. The weather is perfect this morning. It almost felt fallish earlier. We're headed to church in a bit. Then we're doing sandwiches and spending the afternoon at the pool. The house is clean. The yards are done. Oh, I wish for today to pass ever so slowly. Here's to one more day of summer. Happy Sunday!The Bowershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096968596210486326noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4492951500203096018.post-88346126972250467042012-07-30T19:53:00.001-07:002012-07-30T19:53:39.915-07:00Slow Down, Summer!I've spent the last week or so attempting to simplify and organize my classroom and my home so that I can have a smooth school year, free of stress. I get like this...every year. Frantic to get it all in order before the madness begins. It never lasts long. My to do list only gets longer. I check something off only to add something on. We've been buying old furniture to paint and put in our bedroom. I'm a little concerned that when August 14th rolls around and I have to go back to the real world, my dresser will still be sitting on my patio unpainted, and I'll be choosing my outfits from the piles in my floor. My classroom, though less cluttered than it's been in the couple of years, looks like a tornado has passed through it. As I type, I'm thinking I need to write myself a note to order ribbons and tattoos for football season. And in the midst of all the chaos, I'm trying to soak up every minute with the funniest toddler I know. Nothing is as good as a "big squeeze" and her saying, "I got you, Mommy!"<br />
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I don't remember the last time I blogged. But I think B and I celebrated our anniversary since then. We had a few childless days at the beach. Ahhhhh. A book, a cold Coke Zero, excellent company, people watching, naps, and a tan. We enjoyed it. I'm so thankful for B. I often think about how things played out in God's timing. He's the sweetest husband and a great daddy. He's just right for me. He keeps me calm and sane when I don't feel calm OR sane. He gives Ella Kate her bath on the nights when I just need that 5 minutes to myself. I'm not telling you he doesn't make me really mad sometimes or that he's perfect. But he is top of the line and I'm thankful I get to be his wife. <br />
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It's thundering and raining and it's almost my bedtime. So with all the frantic "get it all done" feelings I have swirling in my head, I think I'll just make a list for tomorrow and hit the sack, and enjoy going to sleep listening to the rain. <br />
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Yesterday we spent some time in the pool before B headed off to football. Ella Kate and I decided to hit up a few flea markets and found ourselves in Opp. We found nothing special so we decided to swing by Pop and BeBe's before coming home. All was well until Ella Kate took a little spill and hit her head on the couch leg. There was blood...lots of blood. She was screaming. I was trying to hold it together. See, I'm a calm person for the most part. But something came over me and I began to gag and feel faint. My daddy drove us to the emergency room. Ella Kate and I rode in the back. Both of us had a wet washcloth...seriously. I thought we were going to have to pull over for me to hurl. I knew she would survive. It was just the combination of her being upset and the blood coming from the gash in her head. I'm not sure how long we were at the hospital, but it was long enough for my husband to leave Goshen and get back to Jack to pick up his truck, then drive to Opp. A little glue and some steristrips later, we went back to Pop's to eat chicken, per EK's request, and came home. It was quite a night. We all slept til 9 this morning. </div>
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She's fine this morning and we're getting ready to go for our first haircut. Hopefully, I'll handle that better than I did the transition to the big girl bed. Happy Tuesday!</div>The Bowershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096968596210486326noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4492951500203096018.post-85999433309751050612012-07-06T13:44:00.000-07:002012-07-06T13:44:12.305-07:00A Week-Long StaycationThis week has been extra marvelous. On Monday, B and I spent the day shopping while Aunt Mary Sue kept Ella Kate. We were happy. Ella Kate was happy. And I'm certain Aunt Mary Sue enjoyed herself too. It was a win/win situation for all parties involved. We enjoyed the day together, but felt like we were forgetting something every time we got in the truck. <div>
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We grilled streaks on Tuesday with the family. B grilled in between hail storms. Literally. Wednesday, we struck out bright and early for the beach with B's brother, Garret, and his fiance', Courtney. Ella Kate was pumped about the "beach" and about the company. All looked well until we arrived and the thunder began. And continued. And continued. So we caught up on Kendra re-runs until it quit raining enough to get out on the beach. We stayed several hours. Ella Kate loved playing with "G and Corney". Thank you for entertaining her. We're taking you from now on. We had dinner and started home with hopes that Ella Kate would be out for most of the trip. She did go to sleep but it was somewhere between Opp and Elba. </div>
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Thursday, we visited with old friends in the friendliest city in the South, Luverne. Oh, how I've missed The Chicken Shack. And my friends. Dinner was great. And I thoroughly enjoyed riding around town before we came home. It made me a little sad. I made some really good friends while I was there so visits are always bittersweet. I could do a whole post on how good those people were to me when I moved there fresh out of college, knowing not a soul...My first year of teaching was one big blur and I felt like my kids were a science project of trial and error. My administrators were the BEST. And my colleagues were way fun...(is that a phrase?) We also loved our church family. So going back, even if only for dinner, brings back so many memories. Life was definitely simpler then. But life brought changes, most of them for the best. Still, I am grateful for my time spent there. It was just what I needed at that time in my life. </div>
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In closing, a little shout out to my "husband of the year" who snorkeled around the pool until he found my missing pearl earring this afternoon. They're just earrings, but they were his gift for me to celebrate Ella Kate's arrival. I was slightly upset when I realized I'd lost it. But he snorkeled until he found it. I think I'll keep him. </div>
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I'm off to camp next week. I'm certain I'll have good stories to share when I return. Until then...</div>The Bowershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096968596210486326noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4492951500203096018.post-77475447010812410212012-06-28T18:33:00.001-07:002012-06-28T18:33:26.176-07:00Sentimental Post Ahead...Night #2 in a big girl bed...really???? My mom informed me earlier this week that Ella Kate was attempting to throw her leg over the rail of the crib. So I put her in the bed that night and told her to go for it. She didn't bat an eye. She threw that leg up and over. So, sadly, the crib was converted to a big girl bed last night. I cried. When did this happen? I feel as if I just brought her home from the hospital. I'm tearing up again as I type. I wouldn't say I'm overly sentimental. But I'm having issues about this bed. My husband in the middle of my tears says, "and next it'll be a full size bed". I didn't find that very comforting. She's done well. There is no rail so last night we put the bean bag beside the bed. That's where we found her about 3 this morning...sound asleep. I was worried she wouldn't stay in bed. But at this point I'm not sure she knows she can get out. She is quite the sleeper these days. Based on her first week in this world, I would never have expected this. She's in bed around 8 and sleeps until 8. It makes for a happy mommy and daddy. I LOVE being home with her this summer. She's changing so much so fast and I don't have to miss it...at least for a few months. <br />
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Next week is a full week off at our house. No practice. No workouts. No plans. Nothing. YES! And then it's off to camp for a week. Summer, slow down. <br />
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I sat out back one night this week watching B and Ella Kate play in the yard. I thought as I watched them how different life was just 5 short years ago. It was kind of a rough summer then...one where I was wondering if God had any big plans for my life or if I should go ahead and join the convent. But, my how things have come full circle. We've been married almost 4 years, and it's far from perfect, but it's fun (most days). And being a mommy is one of the very best things I have ever done. It sure threw a kink in our orderly little lives the first few months, but she's so worth it. I get stressed. I get tired. I get tired. Did I say that twice? I meant to. I get mad. But my cup is so full tonight. (I think it's the big girl bed thing.) It's not that it's perfect. It's that it's far more than I deserve. <br />
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Wishing each of you a relaxing Fourth of July holiday with your families...The Bowershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096968596210486326noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4492951500203096018.post-80616793652197160402012-06-24T13:49:00.001-07:002012-06-24T13:49:31.944-07:00Birthday FunWe kicked off a big birthday week on Thursday with B's 30th. We celebrated by going to swimming lessons, and he headed off to football workouts. EK and I did make him dinner and a birthday cake. He also got a candle in his cinnamon roll that morning. Because birthdays are a celebration of a life, I'll take a minute to tell you that I am so thankful for Bradley. He came along at the perfect time (although at the time I thought he was late). He had a ton of patience in the beginning when I told him I couldn't handle him calling everyday or coming by all the time. He stuck with me, and I'm so thankful. He is the most patient man I know. Often when I expect exasperation from him, I get a joke or a smile instead. He probably couldn't say the same about me. You are an awesome Daddy and the sweetest husband. We're thankful for you. <br />
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Friday was my 31st birthday. (Yes, Bailee D., I would be considered a cougar.) We had a lazy day of swimming lessons and pool time at Papa's. I got to sit outside all by myself and read during naptime. It was interrupted only briefly when our child ate her diaper rash cream, forcing us to call poison control. She's fine now. For a few minutes B and I were not. We had dinner with my parents and my brother at a little place in Defuniak Springs called Mom and Dad's...best Italian food you will ever eat. We laughed ALOT and went to Walmart because we never go to Mom and Dad's and not go to Walmart. It's just a given. <br />
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Saturday, the birthday celebrations continued with a trip to Mobile for B and I. We stayed at The Battlehouse downtown...loved it! We ate some great seafood when we arrived at lunch and hung out at the pool until our room was ready. That night, we headed off to a surprise 30th birthday party for our friend, Morgan. Morgan and B grew up together and shared a birthday celebration at VBS each year. I got to know Morgan for the first time when she sang in our wedding. A couple of years later, I started teaching with her Mom. We text occasionally, and we say that if we lived closer, we might actually be good friends. She's precious. So when we got the invite for her party, we decided to make a weekend of it. I laughed so much last night my cheeks are still sore today. I witnessed my husband singing Friends In Low Places karaoke style with Morgan's husband (who is also a coach). I'm not sure, but I would bet they talked sports at some point last night. They did a good duet! I'm thinking we may take them on the road soon. Seriously, I was impressed. We had a blast, Matt and Morgan. Oh, I wish we all lived closer. We ended the night sitting in our hotel room eating McDonalds at midnight just because we could. <br />
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We drove home this morning, and we all really need a nap, although someone who shall remain nameless is being less than cooperative about this. It was an extra good weekend. Here's to a good week as well.The Bowershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096968596210486326noreply@blogger.com0